At a
restaurant, a cockroach suddenly flew from somewhere and sat on a
lady. She started screaming due to fear. With a panic stricken face and
trembling voice, she started jumping, desperately trying to get rid of the cockroach. Her reaction was
contagious, as everyone in her group also got panicky.
The
lady finally managed to push the cockroach away but ...it landed on another
lady in the group. Now, the waiter rushed forward to their rescue. In this
chaos, the cockroach next fell upon the waiter. The waiter stood firm, composed himself and observed the behavior of the cockroach on his shirt. When he
was confident enough, he grabbed it with his fingers and threw it out of the
restaurant.
Sipping
my coffee and watching the amusement, my mind picked up a few thoughts
and started wondering, was the cockroach responsible for their
histrionic behavior? If so, then why
was the waiter not disturbed? He
handled it near to perfection, without any chaos. It is not the cockroach, but
the inability of the ladies to handle
the disturbance caused by the cockroach. I realized that, it is not the
shouting of my father or my boss or my wife that disturbs me, but it’s my
inability to handle their behavior that disturbs
me. It’s not the traffic jams on the road that disturbs me, but my inability to
handle such situations that disturbs me. More than the problem, it’s my
reaction to the problem that creates
chaos in my life.
Lessons from the story: - I understood, I should not react in life. I should always respond. The women reacted, whereas the waiter responded. Reactions are always instinctive whereas responses are always well thought of, and save a situation from going out of hand, to avoid cracks in life, to
avoid taking decisions in anger, anxiety, stress.
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